Family Matters: How Interpersonal Mattering Can Guide Stepparents in Their Journey to Becoming Securely Attached with Their Stepadolescents
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Authors
Bergman, Andriana
Issue Date
2025-09
Type
Capstone
Language
en
Keywords
interpersonal mattering , relational ethos , stepfamilies , secure attachment , parent-adolescent relationships , adolescent development , stepfamilies attachment
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Abstract
This graduate project examines the role of interpersonal mattering in creating the relational ethos from which secure attachment can unfold in the stepparent-stepadolescent relationship. Stepfamily formation presents a complex and multifaceted process shaped by cultural, social, emotional, and historical dynamics that influence how mattering is both expressed and perceived in second-time families. A comprehensive literature review examines challenges and supportive factors at the adolescent, stepparent, and family system levels that affect the development of interpersonal mattering. Findings underscore the pivotal role of mattering in promoting secure attachment bonds, positive holistic outcomes for adolescents, and stepfamily integration. Drawing on these insights and informed by theories grounded in attachment science the author proposes a three-pillar framework entitled The Mattering Model of Family Making. This framework is designed to support stepparents in deepening their insight into both their own and their stepadolescent’s internal emotional experiences, empowering them to relationally attune and effectively matter the adolescent.